I called up three agencies and questioned them about the protocols in which family's have to follow such as there sexuality. The first agency I called was Leake & Watts, I choose this agency because this was the agency my parents used when adopting me. I called the Homefinding and Foster Parent Recruitment department and simply asked if there was discrimination against homosexuals. I already knew the answer but I was surprised when the guy enthusiastically stated that a family is a family no matter what gender the parents. For some reason I don't recall the people I had encounters with at Leake & Watts to be so friendly, but that was 7 years ago.
After calling Leak & Watts I simply searched NYC adoption agencies in google search and looked through websites till I found an agency that seemed interesting. I came across the Spence-Chapin page and started browsing through it. I was pretty impressed when under the support Spence-Chapin sidebar I saw "Our thrift shop" While looking through the other agency home pages none of them had an option for a thrift shop, I was so amazed because a thrift shop is very helpful for family who receive very low income. Thrift stores act as resources for clothes toys and even supplies such as couches or other bed room furniture. After continuing my "snooping" I found their number and gave them a call. I asked if they accepted homosexual couples and the woman transferred my call, I waited 5 minuets or so and some one finally spoke. I then asked again if homosexual couples were aloud to adopt and I was told to email a head director. I emailed the head director and have yet to hear back. The two people I spoke to seemed hesitant about the situation which lead me to believe that the topic was not accepted very well. To my surprise a women emailed me back and explained that homosexual adoption is accepted and done. For my elevator speech I will bring in the polite email.
Last but not least I picked an agency that is named Bethany Christian Services. Right away I took a leap of faith and called. Unfortunately they were closed so I was unable to talk to someone. While looking through there website I found a side bar that said Domestic Adoption. I wasn't familiar with the word domestic, so I typed I googled domestic partnership and read definitions. "A domestic partnership is a legal or personal relationship between two individuals who live together and share a common domestic life but are neither joined by marriage nor a civil union.""Domestic Partnership." Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia. Wikipedia, 30 Mar. 2011. Web. 05 Apr. 2011. . While reading the definition given by Wikipedia it came to me that my parents (who are both women) are in a domestic partnership, so by putting pieces together I am assuming that this agency allows homosexual adoptions. I could be wrong though so until I get in contact with an actual representative I will not be able to confidentially state that they do allow homosexual adoptions.
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ReplyDeleteFor this project, you focused on adoption and specifically if they accepted homosexual adoption.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed your speech and post because adoption was a topic that was barely covered. I liked that you actually took the initiative to call these agencies to see their opinions on homosexuality.
This project matters to me because I lack knowledge on adoption and the issue of homosexuality. This project made me question Leak and Watts and why you had too e-mail a director just for an answer if they accepted homosexual adoption. I found this project very interesting and brave to do.
Stephanie
ReplyDeleteYou chose to go into depth in a topic that you had a connection to; adoption. By calling agencies, you had the chance to learn more about the restrictions involved in this procedure and specifically on sexuality of parents. I enjoyed reading your post because for me it was a breath of fresh air. Something we had not touched much base upon during our unit. I found this project important to me because if I one day chose to adopt a child it taught me the restrictions there are for example in a domestic adoption. Something that would have been the next step after calling these agencies, was to do actual research on this and see if it is allowed in all states for same sex marriages are allowed to adopt. Besides that good Job!
This could be a very touchy subject to many. In some ways it is considered to be a taboo because many people find it uncomfortable to talk about or even listen to. I'm glad you took the step out of the "so-called norm" to research what intereseted you. Overall this post is very interesting. I never understood all the details about adoption between homosexual parents. I always believed it was much harder for homosexuals to adopt as compared to straight parents. This post is very well written and I sense you speaking in complete honesty as you write; not crossing any boundries but still getting your point across. Very well done.
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Steph
ReplyDeleteYou chose to go and dig deeper on adoption and you found restrictions and you found out about the thoughts of others on people adopting. I really enjoyed reading this post and I thought it was interesting that you did research on this topic. This project is important to me because now if I ever want to adopt I now know what I can do. You did a really good job!
The main point of your project was to find out if Leake & Watts, Spence-Chapin, Bethany Christian Services were accepting of same sex parents adopting children.
ReplyDeleteI really like that your project was very meaningful to you, it added a connection to your work that I could not find in my project. I found it weird that Spence-Chapin didn’t have an answer for you. Have they never been asked this question? I have no personal connection to your project but I have friends that are gay and they will one day face this dilemma; which really should not be a dilemma. I feel you could have either asked more questions or gone deeper in to why a orphanage would not want same sex parents to adopt.